A Metalbond reader named “T” sent this picture of himself along with a note. Seems like his question might be better answered by Dan Savage, but he came to Metalbond for advice so let’s take a look and you guys can weigh in in the comments section.
Dear Metal,
I read your blog and was wondering if you would post a question for your readers.
My boyfriend is the top in our relationship and continually accuses me of cheating on him because I’m unable to answer his calls or texts on my many work trips.
We’ve been dating for 18 months, and the sex is sill amazing. He’s not really kinky but not vanilla either. He loves to play with my ass and will pin me down when fucking.
So, I was thinking of bringing up the idea of introducing chastity to our relationship so he feels more comfortable. Should I talk it over with him or just buy a device, put it on, and give him the key?
-T
OK guys, do you have any advice for this guy?